am just curious to know what emotions memories of "the first time" evoke in us girls.
from what i have heard so far, the range of emotions is just as diverse as our skin tones.
and for those yet to do it(coughing... Z e p hi ..& co)
what do you hope to feel?
of course, i'll share my feeling too.
giving nothing, losing nothing, just becoming. yes i have beautiful, not too distant memories.
the actual sex was nothing to write about.
this song sums it up perfectly for me.
Song lyrics | Tonight Is The Night lyrics
42 comments:
First of all...I gots to claim first!!!
Now secondly my first time waxs rubbish...we both didn't know what we were doing and I hate him till date...
my first time was just painful infact didnt feel anything sweet at all, had me thinking sex was overated, b4 then i had al this stupid fantasies of wat that day shuld be from these stupid historical romance...hehehe....the guy was just a piece of shit that i know for sure....
how are u doing dearie?
afrobabe, pls shift to one position abeg....infact am nos 2 ..period
afrobabe*u're first! gold!
how could u?
u still hate him? for wetin?
it shud be about u. right?
ms emmotions* u get the silver!
i think most of us had that stupid fantasy.
can u imagine having the stained sheet framed?(shudder)
am good. u?
na wa! my first time was so hasty, it was very disappointing!
i felt nothing...and for months i still believed i was a virgin.
sherri how u dey?!
love that song
one of my fav top ten hits of all time
first time here
nice blog
My first time was lovely..he had roses that led up to the bedroom, champagne on the side..and then he began to kiss me gently...the foreplay was kosher, I was so wet that he slid in so easily although I could feel a sharp pain with the first few thrust..I did not bleed
ok I kid I kid...
so is this what you promised me? I am left with barely any description or some kinda detail.and then I get some song? *pouts*
I hope there is a part two sha...you could use my above fake story as a blue print.lol..:)
My first time?
I felt i was taken advantage of.
He was lots older and cajoled me into it.It was also not pleasurable at all.
Not a pleasant memory but i learnt from it.
Nice blog, am surprised i havnt been here before.
isi** that seems to be the common experience.
no pain/discomfort?
lol@ believing u were still a virgin for months.
doing well thx, u nko?
an ibo dude** that song is quite special.
any sentiments attached?
thx dude.
Zephi** baby luv, u almost got me there!
that's exactly the point! details become irrelevant with time, but the emotions of the day remain with u forever.
ur post is coming...
part2? did u mean another rant?
hmmm, u got me thinking.
of course! u can't feel the song. not yet anyway.
princesa**that's unfortunate but also quite common.
i have yet to hear of a female who had a pleasurable first time.
u learnt cos u are smart.
thx babe.
I still believe in the stupid fantasies....
allied**that's my girl! as long as u know it's a fantasy.
how u been?
sherri,huh this post and betty wright's song....for me its bad memories better imagined and not said
I updated.
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Shola- so sorry babe,perhaps u shud dwell on the the woman that emerged? how are u luv?
afrobabe- i dey come o, shud i be afraid?
naapali- mind thyself o. lol
harlequin world is def more beautiful than the real world.i also heard nutrasweet is sweeter the the real thing and has almost no calories!
how u dey?
lol, those lyrics made me laugh.
If people truly understood what the first time was like, I daresay it would prevent some people from ...'doing'
lol!
NIGERIAN CURIOSITY
IT WAS SO MUCH EASIER WHEN I ONLY HAD ONE...
It was quite pleasant. maybe cos I planned for everything myself. it was a very cerebral decision and he did his best to accomodate.
solomonsydelle* yes o, that be my blood boiler! why are some females so afraid/ashamed to talk about it?
ms catwalq* be nti e ri!
pleasant ke? i fear o.lol
i expected it to be painful...and it was...but he did his best to make me relax and alleviate the pain as much as he could...it was painful, but not so unpleasant as to convince me not to revisit again;)...
i just came here to read everyone's response-lol!
gnigeriana* seems like u had a realistic expectation unlike most. good for u girl!
pink satin* doing research lady? lol
how u dey?
My first time....hmmm.....it was just dere. I was looking at my wristwatch timin how long it took. from 3.45pm to 4.15pm, i couldnt wait for it to be ova and so I axd 'Arent u thru yet?' And I tot is dis wat pple say is sweet?Dat was den but i soon learnt I should NEVER said those words. LOL!!!! Sherri baby how u doing? I saw ur comment . 10x
LMAO!!! I am convinced to wait... lol... but on dt wedding night, when dd time is right, what do i expect???
lmao.. (i love ur blog sherri!!)
truthfully speaking.. I expect to get pregnant.. for TWINS!!! Amen!!!!!
lol.. and i'm really confused about d lyrics of the song.. hissss, she didn't even say anything hisss
oya update!
@nikkisab,
girl, u are too funny!
i know jare! to think we actually believed it would be sweet!
how u've been?
congrats again.....
@1stpet2v9,
u just made my day!
there really shud be no haste, it shud be whenever u feel ready.
girl,please approach the bench!(hushed tones)after waiting till the wedding night, getting pregnant with twins is def a show stopper. u need a few months if not years of joyrides.
warrabout the lyrics?were u looking for graphic details?lol
My first time?
It was quite nice actually.
What's all this about pain..
i didnt feel a thing...
lol!
my firs time was the worst... dont even want to think about it... at times dont even claim him as my first... i usually try to forget about him and claim my second as my first... now that was some good ish
carlang*
did u see the sign on the door? close ur eyes and ears and no harm will come to u.lol
i bet it was nice and painless!(rolleyes)
how are u swerrie?
eb the celeb*uptown girl in da house!
sorry babe, am glad ur 2nd time was the charm.
to say that i love that song was an understatement but it was not such a dream come true when it happened . thanks for always showing live to your sister
first time right? never knew it happened and always believed I was a V, till I was told otherwise and I was like, that means that day? didn't feel a thing.
misspumping u're not alone babe.my pleasure always..
how u dey?
uzezi u re really funny!
lol @still thinking u're a V.
u didn't feel anything?wow!
will waka come
u haven't talked of urs or did i miss it?
This Uzezi sef ;)
uzezi,
yep! u missed it. lol
like most, there was not much to it. a little pain, a lot of anxiety and voila! a woman emerged.
aloofar*u heard nothing, u saw nothing! nod ur head if u comprehend!
first time got me rolling my eyes and thinking...so overrated. but he was this sweet sweet charming fella who i hate till date...lol
didn't they say a girl always loves her first forever? that she feels a connection with him forever?
@fantasy queen- y hate him if he was so sweet?
fantasy queen*that seems like the general experience of most. no pain/discomfort?
must be something he did after?
am on my way to ur neck of the wood.
uzezi*really?
it certainly doesn't look like that from all
the reactions above.
i have fond memories of him tho.
First time was just there. Nothing special...I was really excited about it but it didn't blow my mind or anything. It subsequently got better though :D
anyaposh*
as u can see, u re not alone o
how u doing babe?
lol...i know o, so many stereotypical responses. I guess that's reality. my dear, i'm doing alright...no complaints. how are you?
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